How do you like her new ‘do?  

Those of you on Facebook may have noticed that I asked for prayer for Evangelle’s health.

Yesterday morning, we received an update from Ethiopia which was brief and a bit unclear, but apparently, Evangelle had a high fever two nights in a row, was diagnosed with bronchitis, and was started on antibiotics. The nurse also mentioned that Evangelle had a decreased appetite which is definitely not good news for such a little girl.

Many of you have already told me that you are praying for Evangelle and for Joseph and me, and we are deeply grateful for your prayers! I will let you know if we receive any new information about her progress.

We are comforted to know that the Lord is with our baby girl!

Your daily dose of true beauty advice…

Long hours. Thankless tasks. No breaks. 

To our modern ears, it seems like being a housewife is an oppressive job. In Proverbs 31 we get a different picture. The homemaker described here isn’t seeking self-fulfillment. She isn’t interested in advancing her career, having her own bank account, or being known for her personal accomplishments.

Instead, she doesn’t seem to worry about her own interests and needs at all, focusing instead on the practical needs of her husband and children.

The Bible tells us about this woman:

• She and her husband have food to eat and enough to share with others.
• Her husband’s crazy about her. He brags to his friends about her.
• She’s well dressed.
• She’s emotionally stable.
• Her children honor and praise her.

Doesn’t sound like an oppressed woman to me. Why not take some time to give Proverbs 31 a fresh look yourself?

~Nancy Leigh DeMoss in “Oppressive Tasks?“

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Tomorrow…

She turns 8 months old.

Will be one month since we said goodbye.

The waiting is not getting any easier, but we continue to put our trust in the Lord. He is good and He does good (Ps. 119:68).

I will sing of your strength;
I will sing aloud of your steadfast love in the morning.
For you have been to me a fortress
and a refuge in the day of my distress.

O my Strength, I will sing praises to you,
for you, O God, are my fortress,
the God who shows me steadfast love.

Psalm 59:16-17

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Our dire need for God’s grace doesn’t get smaller after God saves us—in one sense, it actually gets bigger. Christian growth, says the Apostle Peter, is always “growth into grace,” not away from it. Many Christians think that becoming sanctified means that we become stronger and stronger, more and more competent. And although we would never say it this way, we Christians sometimes give the impression that sanctification is growth beyond our need for Jesus and his finished work for us: we needed Jesus a lot for justification; we need him less for sanctification.

The truth is, however, that Christian growth and progress involves coming to the realization of just how weak and incompetent we continue to be and how strong and competent Jesus continues to be for us. Spiritual maturity is not marked by our growing, independent fitness. Rather, it’s marked by our growing dependence on Christ’s fitness for us. Because we are daily sinners, we need God’s daily distributions of free grace that come our way as a result of Christ’s finished work.

Christian growth involves believing and embracing the fact that, even as a Christian, you’re worse than you think you are but that God’s grace toward you in Christ is much bigger than you could ever imagine.

~Tullian Tchividjian in “Are Christians Totally Depraved?“

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“Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children.”

Ephesians 5:1

If our children look to our marriages for proof that the Gospel is true, will they find the evidence they need?

In his book Gospel-Powered Parenting, William Farley provides a valuable perspective on the importance of Christlike testimonies within the home…

Jesus taught by example. “In the first book, O Theophilus, I have dealt with all that Jesus began to do and teach” (Acts 1:1). Notice the sequence. First Jesus did, then he taught. Every effective parent does likewise. Children seldom internalize the teaching of hypocrites. But the teaching of those who live what they preach pierces deeply into our children’s hearts.

Jesus is the only person who did this perfectly. He told his disciples to take up their cross because he took up his cross (Matt. 16:24-25). Jesus told his disciples to humble themselves because he humbled himself (Phil. 2:5-8). Jesus told his followers to obey the Father because he obeyed his Father (John 8:29; Phil. 2:8). There was a perfect correlation between what Jesus taught and what he did. He was God’s only perfect leader.

“Whatever the leaders are, the people become,” notes John MacArthur. “Biblical history demonstrates that people will seldom rise above the spiritual level of their leadership.”

…Here is my point: Parenting is the most important leadership position in the church. And example is also the first principle of parenting. Parents lead the family, the smallest and most important cell in the local church. Archbishop Tillotson (1630-94) said, “To give children good instruction, and a bad example, is but beckoning to them with the head to show them the way to heaven, while we take them by the hand and lead them in the way to hell.”

I have said all of this to bring us to this point: Our marriage is the most powerful example that we possess. To the degree that the gospel makes our marriage attractive, God will empower us to reach our children…

What is our marriage telling them about Christ and his bride? They see it all. They hear our fights. They absorb our attitudes. They know who or what really sits on the throne of our lives. They watch how we handle resentment. They hear the way we talk to each other. They know when we hear the Sunday sermon and apply it. They also know when we ignore it.

The message that our marriage preaches either repels or attracts our children. God wants your child to watch your marriage and think, “I want a marriage like that, and I want the God that produced it.” 

[Gospel-Powered Parenting, pp. 107-108, 110-111]

If you’re married to a man who is unwilling to love you like Christ loves the church, let me encourage you to remember that your children can still see the power of the Gospel in your testimony as a wife. Don’t underestimate what God can do through the example of a godly woman! 

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My father, the quintessential athlete, was a platform-diving champion. He taught me for years always to check the depth of the water, and never to dive into cloudy or murky areas. But I didn’t listen, and I paid the price with a broken neck. Life’s like that, isn’t it? We sidestep the counsel of older, wiser people that know better and, sadly, we end up paying the consequences.

I’m sure that’s why the Bible makes such a big deal about it. Joshua 1 says: “Be careful to obey all the law…do not turn from it to the right or to the left, so that you may be successful wherever you go.” There’s something to be said for doing things God’s way.

What’s God been telling you lately? Don’t shrug your shoulders or turn away from His advice; don’t sidestep His counsel; He knows better. He’s the expert, a champion, at living life the way it ought to be lived.

~Joni Eareckson Tada in “Take Your Father’s Advice“

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“Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord,
and he will repay him for his deed.”

Proverbs 19:17

Samaritan’s Purse does so much more than distribute Operation Christmas Child shoeboxes around the world. 

Here’s one more reason why I love this incredible ministry… 

You can learn more about the life-changing work of Samaritan’s Purse and give to support their efforts HERE.
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“Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, 
   the fruit of the womb a reward.”

Psalm 127:3

I read these heartbreaking statistics in an article at LifeNews.com yesterday…

The roughly 53 million children aborted since 1973 equals about 17 percent of America’s current 312 million-plus population. Nearly one-fifth of us, simply taken out of the equation…

In order to make these numbers more understandable, the author Allan Sears explained that the number of lives lost through legalized abortion in the U.S. is now equal to the combined populations of California, Oregon, Washington, Nevada, and Arizona. Unspeakable tragedy.

Many churches across the country set apart this past Sunday as Sanctity of Human Life Sunday. Designating one day each year to focus on this vital issue is good, but as Christians, we need to believe and help others understand that the sanctity of human life must be recognized and protected every day of the year.

As we influence our culture with the love and truth of Christ, perhaps many more will be allowed to see and celebrate the precious gift of life.

“Just Another Birthday” A powerful new video by Casting Crowns 

Find out how you can make a difference in the cause of life by reading John Piper’s article “Five Ways to Fight Abortion and Serve the Unborn and Their Moms“ 

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Depression can be cruel. It is an emotional state that makes us vulnerable to believing lies. We combat lies with truth. We overpower wrong feelings with right thinking. This is not some naïve approach that assumes a verse or two will do the trick. But how can we underestimate the power of the Word? It is the Word that can revive and give hope.

A depressed person does not need to hear about his or her counselor’s depression; he needs to hear truth. If there is guilt, he needs to hear cross-centered truth and gospel promises (e.g., Rom. 8:1). If there is a troubled heart, he needs to hear Christ’s call to trust him and his Father (John 14:1). If there is chaos and confusion because of various troubles, he needs to hear the peace Jesus promised (John 16:33). There are numerous principles in Scripture that deal with suffering and its purpose (James 1:2-4). There are many psalms that are relevant and powerful and honest. We need to learn that the rock for the depressed is the Word (2 Cor. 10:3-5).

We need to preach the powerful truths of the Word to ourselves. This is what the psalmist does in Psalms 42 and 43. He not only questions himself, but he preaches hope in God to himself. “Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God (Pss. 42:5-6, 11; 43:5).

~Brian S. Borgman in Feelings and Faith, pp. 141-142

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 ”I have stored up your word in my heart,
that I might not sin against you.”

Psalm 119:11

The vast majority of Bible passages in my memory were inscribed there during my childhood. As we grew, my parents made sure that my brother, sister, and I were all regularly involved in memorizing God’s Word, and I’m so grateful that they did. 

When I was young, my mind was like soft clay. After only minutes of repetition, Scripture was easily impressed upon my memory and retained for years to come. In the last few years, however, I’ve found that my gray matter has hardened considerably. Memorizing Scripture now requires a bit of hammering and chiseling. If I’d not begun hiding God’s Word away when I was child, my knowledge of Scripture at this point in my life would be quite deficient.

If you have little ones, can I encourage you to make the memorization of Scripture a normal part of your daily routine? If there’s one thing most children can do with ease, it’s to memorize information. And if there’s one thing they should be memorizing, it’s the Word of God. It alone has the power to transform their hearts and guide them in the paths of righteousness. Even though memorization may not be as easy for you as it is for your children, you’ll also be blessed as you continue saturating your own heart in the truths of Scripture. 

My sister Niki is doing an amazing job of raising my niece Addison to know and love the Lord through His Word. It thrills my heart to see Addison’s knowledge of Scripture expanding at such a young age… 

Take a few minutes each day to memorize Scripture with your children. I guarantee you; it will be time well spent!

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